Toddlers N Tots Child Day Care Center: Clarksboro NJ

When I first checked it out I was very plsd since they have cameras. DO NOT LET THIS COVER FOOL YOU TOO! I started my child at this daycare at 8 mnths. Everything was going great!I was dropping my daughter off 1 mrning & the owner Pat came charging through the door while I was in the classroom & said to me “I am no doctor that but that child has an ear infection, she did nothing but scream the whole day yesterday.” My response was “this is the first I’m hearng of this no one sd anythng to me yesterday and don’t you ever approach me with that tone again.” I kept my cool & did not go into mommy mode. She calmed down a bit and started again. I said“I do not like your tone.” I said I will take my daughter to the Dr. & get her chkd & I will take her home since she is not welcm here today.We left. This whole incident took place in the classrm in front of the other tots & the teacher. U have to walk past her office to get into the school she could have just asked me to come to her office she would like to tell me something.I took her to the Dr.& no ear infection, maybe she was just having a bad day. Then they started to transition her from a crib to a mat. I started getting complaints on my report she was screaming and waking the whole school because she wouldn’t stay on the mat. I scheduled a meeting with the owner Pat . She apologized for her verbal attack on me the previous week, which I was surprised. This woman is a controlling human being & things must be her way or you better get out of the way. I know she was not happy that I confronted her right back that day. We discussed the inconsistency of the sleeping pattern for my daughter. 1 day they did the crib next day the mat. She agreed it has to be done 1 way. I also stated that you can not expect a 10 mnth to just lay there when they wake up & the rest of the kids are sleeping,this they seemed appalled at.We decided to give it another go. About 1 week later all was good. Now my daughter is 14 months old &I rcvd a call at wrk I must come pick her up now becuz she has been crying and screaming all day. When I arrived it was nap time. As soon as I walked in the office the owner was there with an employee & sd “U can’t bring her back”. I was a bit taken back since I had not even rcved a hello or a 1 on 1 discussion about what was going on. I said fine however she is napping I would like to watch the video of her screaming all day. 1.5 hrs into the video there was nothing, she was playing etc. 2 hr time frame it was art time, yes with 1yr olds who are expected to sit at the table why the teacher paints on a paper for them. They are not allowed to touch the paint nor they taught how to use it, but expected to sit still. Since it was not my daughter’s turn she decided to get up & get toy and bring it to the table. The teacher took the toy away and sat her down. And naturally she carried on for all of 1 minute. When I questioned Pat on the video which shwd no indication of her screaming she had no response.Then proceeded to tell me she threw herself down outside in the play yard, I asked why? The teacher said becuz she was holding another child & my daughter wanted to be picked up too & couldn’t.Becuz of typical toddler behavior we have not been invited back to Toddlers n Tots. I know this is hard to believe because it is still shocking to me as I share this story. If your child doesn’t listen 2 directions all the time and doesn’t nap when they want them to & act like good little soldiers or a Stepford Child this may not be the daycare for you. If you can accept the owners unprofessionalism & her unwarranted advice on how to raise your child you may do well here. I am confused at the definition of daycare after my experience here. But I will ask the perspective ones I visit if my toddler is allowed to behave like a toddler. There is not doubt in my mind that she kicked my daughter out since I was targeted from the first confrontation she created. I did get refunded 4 the mnth.

• OVERALL School Rating: 1
• Health and Safety: 3
• Environments: 3
• Teaching Staff: 1
• Teacher/Child Ratios: 1
• Curriculum: 1

This is a nice building and it is kept very clean, but the above mother was right. The owner is a fruitcake who needs to be reeled in. She is known for yelling at her staff and at parents. Both hate her.
It’s not worth the aggravation. Find another place where your children will be respected and loved by an owner who actually likes children!
My child is so much happier after leaving there.

• OVERALL School Rating: 1
• Health and Safety: 3
• Environments: 3
• Teaching Staff: 3
• Teacher/Child Ratios: 3
• Curriculum: 3

This school needs to shut their doors or at least get a new owner. I do not know many who can tolerate the Director/Owner. Your day has come and gone. Go to a school where you and your child can be respected and treated with respect.

• OVERALL School Rating: 1
• Health and Safety: 1
• Environments: 1
• Teaching Staff: 1
• Teacher/Child Ratios: 1
• Curriculum: 1